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What I learned teaching my children to read

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You see this guy? Well that’s my baby, the youngest of five kids. Sometimes I think he got the best version of me as a mom. Let me explain…

When I first started homeschooling, I literally had no idea what I was doing. Our oldest sons had started their education in public school so they already knew how to read, write, and do basic math. There is a seven year gap between them and the three “littles” as I like to call them.

I’m pretty sure I had a panic attack the moment I realized that I had to teach them how to read. How in the world was I going to do that? Thankfully reading came easy for my daughter and she picked it up quite quickly just going through the Hooked on Phonics books. Then we got to our fourth son and boy was that a challenge! I’m pretty sure we were in tears on a daily basis. But hey, he had to learn how to read by first grade, right? Well, he was reading by the end of kindergarten but we were all miserable during the entire process.

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Now enter our “baby”. I did what I’d always done, kindergarten at five years old. And for the most part, he liked it but when we got to reading, that was a whole other story. He just could not catch on and then came the tears again. I remembered a podcast I heard about boys and reading and that they typically take longer to learn how to read and that it will just “click” around eight and nine years old sometimes even later. As scary as it was, I decided to give it a shot. I wasn’t going to push my son to read…we weren’t going to do any traditional reading lessons at all. I was simply going to read to him and let it happen naturally.

Children are made readers on the laps of their parents. 

Emilie Buchwald

One day while watching a foreign film with the kids, my son started reading the subtitles out loud! We were all stunned and just looked at him in shock…he could read! He was around eight years old when I started him on reading lessons. We did Hooked on Phonics and Explode the Code. By the time he was nine he was reading chapter books. Now at age ten he is reading beyond grade level and his comprehension and retention is impressive as well! I’m thankful I followed my instincts and took a more gentle and natural approach with him. We are all happier for it!

I hope this post encourages you. Drop me a line or a question, I’d love to hear from you! ❤️

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I’ve decided to homeschool, what now?

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Congratulations! As overwhelming as you may feel in this moment, I promise you it is the best decision you could make. I remember back when I first started homeschooling and how lost I felt. I didn’t know where to start and felt scared and in over my head. In this post I will share with you three things I did when I first started homeschooling.

One of the most important things I did was research my state’s homeschool laws. Each state varies in their requirements to legally homeschool your children and if not followed, can result in your children being reported as truant. You could end up in court and the judge would decide if you could continue homeschooling, or if he/she felt you were negligent, could actually force your kids to attend public school. I don’t say this to scare or deter you, it’s just important that you are fully aware of the homeschool laws in order to protect yourself and your children. The best resource I’ve found where you can find all this information is at the Homeschool Legal Defense Association‘s website. You can also look up each individual state’s laws at this link here. HSLDA is pretty a much a one stop shop for all things homeschool. Their website is filled with valuable tools and information to get you started on your journey. You can read more about their mission here.

“From the day you became a parent, you also became a teacher, and you are equipped to teach your child.”

Anne Campbell

Once I knew what was required for me to homeschool in my state, the next thing I set out to do was figure out what to actually teach them and what curriculum and books I needed for each of my children. I have to be honest here…I had no idea where to start but after quite a bit of research, I came across a gem of a book called Home Learning Year by Year: How to Design a Homeschool Curriculum from Preschool Through High School by Rebecca Rupp. I love this book because it is a great guide to everything you need to teach your children at every grade level. It includes subjects to be covered within each grade, standards for knowledge that should be acquired by your child at each level, recommended books to use as texts for every subject, and much more. I loved how each grade level was broken down by chapter and easy to find. Each year I would simply tab each grade of my kids and refer back to the book as needed throughout the school year. Keep in mind that this is guide and not meant to be followed to the letter.

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Finally, we come to the third thing I did in the beginning which was read all the homeschool blogs I could find! I’m guessing that is how you stumbled upon this post yourself. I absolutely loved (and still do) looking at other mom’s homeschool rooms and reading through the different books and curriculum they recommended. I would spend hours soaking it all up like a sponge. I must advise though, be careful of falling into the comparison trap. No two homeschool families are alike so don’t expect yours to look like the next ones or mine for that matter. Each and every one of us are created with special gifts and talents and that is what makes homeschooling so much fun and unique. You know your children better than anyone and there is no one better than you to decide what they need.

“The most important work you and I will ever do will be within the walls of our own homes.”

Harold B. Lee

Well there you have it! These are the first things I did when I decided to homeschool my kids 12 years ago. These activities paved the path for me and gave me confidence to start on my own homeschool journey. I was encouraged by all the resources and was even more sure that homeschooling is what I’ve been called to do. This all led to choosing curriculum and books, setting a schedule, organizing and setting up a “classroom”, planning out an entire school year, etc. All of which I plan to cover in future blog posts. I hope you choose to stick with me as I share all the things that have helped me as well as the things that didn’t. I am thankful you are here! ❤️

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Let’s start from the beginning…

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Homeschooling my kids is not something I ever imagined myself doing. I attended public school as a kid so it was the only thing I knew. In fact, when I first started homeschooling, I aimed to duplicate the very institution I yanked my kids out of.

I remember it like it was yesterday. I received yet another call from the school about my son’s behavior. It was the fourth one that month alone! I was finally fed up and told the principal that I was withdrawing my son that day. Of course I was met with pushback and was told that wasn’t necessary. That they could get him the “proper” help he needed. I politely told them no and that it was my husband’s and my responsibility, not theirs, to help him.

There were only two months left in the school year when I brought my son home. Initially I only withdrew my second son from school as my oldest wasn’t getting into trouble and had decent grades. I had no idea what I was going to do but I knew I needed to address the behavior most importantly. I decided he needed to “earn” the right to even do school since it seemed he took it for granted.

I set up a strict schedule of indoor and outdoor chores. He cleaned bathrooms, washed walls and baseboards, deep cleaned the kitchen, mowed the lawn, amongst other things. By the end of the week, he was begging me to hit the books! Since it was the end of the school year (and I didn’t actually know what I was doing), I spent the remaining months getting reacquainted with my son.

To be honest, this was probably the toughest part. He went from being gone from home nine hours a day to being home all day.

Let’s park here for a bit…

This hit me in the gut and broke my heart. I didn’t know my son. He had been exposed to things and behaviors at school that were not acceptable in our home. I raised my kids to know God, we went to church every Sunday and midweek as well. Our family was very active in church and we volunteered too. We were “doing” everything “right”. So I thought.

I cried out to God and prayed for guidance. I felt the Lord lead me to read the book of Nehemiah. He spoke very clearly to my heart that there was a crack in our foundation and that we needed to rebuild. God proceeded to walk me through the book of Nehemiah and that became our guide to rebuilding our home. There was no doubt I needed to bring both my sons home and homeschool them. I needed to be more purposeful in their upbringing and not just assume biblical morals and values were being instilled because we attended church. We needed to actively live out Deuteronomy 6:6-7 which says, “these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise.”

“Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known.” Jeremiah 33:3

Our decision to homeschool was met with much opposition. From family, to friends, even leaders in our church disagreed with our decision. I was told I wasn’t “qualified” to teach my kids because I was a high school drop out and didn’t have a college degree. I was told by the youth leader that my kids needed to be in public school because “they needed to be witnesses of Christ”, (they were 12 and 11 years old).

Despite all the negativity, I pressed forward. At the time I didn’t know how or what it would look like but I trusted God to lead us. It didn’t always look pretty but I stayed faithful to that which He called me. Many times I felt like a failure but I stayed the course. Now looking back over the last 12 years, I am confident we made the right choice. When I think of all the time I have with my kids versus had they been in public school, I wouldn’t trade this for anything. That time with them has given me the opportunity to bond with them in a way I honestly don’t think would have been possible if they were gone nine hours a day.

“Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on to make it my own, because Christ Jesus has made me his own.” Philippians 3:12

Dear friends, if you have kids in the public school system, please do not think I am saying “homeschool is the only way”. While I am a strong supporter of homeschooling, I recognize that it’s not for everyone. If you get anything out of this post, may it be a reminder that as mothers and fathers, we have a higher calling for our children. That our time with them in our homes is so short and so incredibly precious. Cherish every moment with your children while they are young as time flies by so fast and we are not promised tomorrow. I strongly urge you to live out Deuteronomy 6:6-7…I can assure you it will be the best decision you ever make for your children and your children’s children. ❤️